And my thoughts just rush through making a huge mess of thoughts – something like mixing up all basic colors of clay to make one big clay ball, that keeps changing colors as you knead or roll. Getting more confused, more integrated, until the ball becomes one dirty colored mess of a ball. From the outside, if you are taking the first look, you cannot imagine that mushy, browny clay ball was made out beautiful distinct colors. Such are my thoughts. A big mess of a mess. Let me throw that out in the garbage. Messy thoughts never make any clear sense. It messes up writing, and as a result, the understanding of the readers. Not that I have a throbbing readership that I am writing for. If one or two souls read what I write here, I consider myself lucky ( I know you do
truself, Thank you!).
Now Violence. Violence kills people. Literally and figuratively. The literal violence is the violence that is out there, words, actions, deeds as part of the our primitive nature. Thinking back, I cannot pin any time in history and say that violence was not part of the society. But in the 20th century and beyond, violence has taken a new meaning. A new life. A new life toward destruction. Now I wish to categorize violence into two broader groups. Community violence. Domestic violence.
What is violence in the community? People getting mad and hurting each other. Hurting total strangers. Killing unknown strangers. Hurting people belonging to something different other that what the killer believes in. Oh God – think about the multitude of unknown cruelties directed towards fellow human beings? Again I am afraid my thoughts are churning so fast from the gag rape in India to the mass shooting in New Town, not missing the obvious war in Afghanistan. Why? We all carry death with us. We never know when that is going to take over the life we live. Then why hurt another life, another soul and what responsibility gave you the right to hurt? Again the mysteries of death, why people turn violent is another million dollar question. Are we feeding the primates in us? Whatever happened to us as a society of living beings? Let’s not bring in “cultured”. I don’t want to call today’s society a cultured one.
I realize this violence is slowly creeping in to the society in the form of entertainment. Look at the movies 60 years ago. Was there this much bloodshed? As science and technology developed, movies started showing lot of “real” blood, shooting and in essence violence. What was entertainment for children 40 or 50 years ago? Playing in the back yard? Board games? Some such thing right? Now look how much their pass time is immersed in violence. The number of games, levels and addictions. I don’t know about it a lot to write. But I do know its out there and kids are addicted like crazy. So again science and technology on the one end being so positively productive, on the other side, feeding the primitive blood thirsty violence hidden in the human nature.
Is there a one solution to end all this nonsense? I am afraid not. No one action can put an end to the killings and deaths. We must have a social conscience as a whole to go through a metamorphosis. Is that possible? I don’t know. Perhaps this is the end that Mayan calendar predicted? An end to values, life and culture? So slowly everyone kills everyone and world comes to an end? Not on one day as expected, but slowly as the century ceases to be the world ceases to be as well? Well it is confusing and scary.
Then there is the figurative violence. The passive violence that kills an individual’s natural flow of life. I would always connect this with the domestic violence. How many women and men live thorough this kind of domestic violence. God, it is totally unbelievably real. I personally know women who go through this type of violence. It’s like living in R.L. Stevenson’s Jekyll and Hyde story. When the man or woman shows a very polite and fine face to the world and shows only a rotten ugly face at the home front. So when the other spouse who lives though this mess, for reasons as stupid as fear – because the other may threaten suicide if ever truth is spoken, or submission and in a larger sense, social stigma. Especially in India if a woman decides to free herself from the clutches of pain, she thinks the society might stigmatize her. What utterly senseless suffering? These things make me very upset and angry at the person that lets this happen to themselves.
Again we are here, so we live is true. Also respecting the other individual, being happy and letting the other person to be happy is also necessary for harmony in life. Torturing, belittling anyone is not acceptable. Why do you have to subject yourself to such pain? Stay away. Stop that in the beginning. I am really enraged to see such nonsense going on in highly educated, employed, so called elite families in India. Ah here I am caught red handed. Angry, enraged…these are what cause violence. Breath. Relax. Pray. And Pray again that all violence should dwindle down and not exist in the world that we leave behind for our children.
